The silver yarn.  Any relationship is a fabric, an interweaving of events and emotions that make up the whole even a D/s relationship.  So it shouldn’t come as any suprise that some old wise moman should say that a scarf and a realtionship are alike.  It is said that if one partner starts a scarf, at the beginning of a relationship, and it is intact and whole when the scarf is finished, then it is a good relationship, meant to last.  That is where the silver yarn comes in. A beautiful scarf was begun when this relationship started.  Scarlet and black, and you might say it represents the ups and downs… but if you look at the scarf you sill notice it isn;t just red and black, it is shot through will a silver yarn.  It is these moments in life that make it so worth living.  In every relationship there must be blindingly brilliant moments of silver, overwhelming you with the perfection of the moment.  This blog is something of a chronicle of a D/s relationshp, the red, the black, and most rewardingly, the silver.